Sometimes we feel that some people leave too soon
- Evy Y. Parkinson
- 2 days ago
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Sometimes we feel that some people leave too soon
And sometimes we feel that some other people live for way too long…
Selfishly we sometimes can get angry at the fact that they left “us”
Because we feel we still need them in our life
For everything they had to teach us and show us
For the examples you got from the way they were and the way they walked and
embodied their truth
We could have used another meeting, another talk, another encounter, another
email…
But the acceptance and the reality is that it is not possible anymore
Not in this life
Not in this body
Not in this physical reality
But we learn to connect in deeper and intangible ways
We get to learn and understand that if someone leaves it is because it was time for
them to leave, and you can continue with everything you already received from them
while they were here in this physical plane.
Somehow you feel their essence as part of this physical reality, because there is a
part that never leaves, even when we do not see the body anymore… Their essence
is everywhere, even in you, because source and spirit is everywhere, it is ALL.
And you learn and understand that as you get more and more in tune with the
spiritual reality, with the eternity of things. It is an experience. I cannot explain it, and
no one can, only each one of us can experience it on our own.
I miss them. I miss being able to just have a conversation or have their simple
presence by my side.
The biggest and best teachers, teach by example. And we
learn by stepping back, feeling, observing and listening.
I know I will always miss them while I am in this one life. I now know that that
doesn’t go away. It is our human side. But that doesn’t necessarily mean to be in a
perpetual state of grief or sadness. When you know the eternity of energy and spirit, the
grief and sadness passes after you consciously feel it, when you allow and befriend your emotions, when you allow it without resistance, like a wave, and in its own time ... Then you are left with acceptance and
peace, feeling the connectedness but still being aware that you will always miss that
one unique being that was such important part of your human earthy experience in this one
life.
For me, some of my biggest teachers have been animals, and a few humans.
What I have made sure is to appreciate and value (with words, energy and actions)
those I care and love while they are still here in this plane with me, as long as I am
able to.
-Dedicated to our mentors and teachers in the form of humans and animals
that many times leave before we do.


























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